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Approach anxiety is all in the mind

June 10, 2010 by  
Filed under Confidence, Weight Loss

Approach anxiety is all in the mind – it is a manifestation of how you are thinking and feeling, of your beliefs essentially. It may of evolved and grown through previous rejection, but all the same you can break it – you can overcome your approach anxiety!

Some people are naturally comfortable around women and have the confidence to walk up to any woman they like. This is because their self beliefs and patterns of thinking are mostly positive. Whereas you worry, think negatively, imagine the rejection, the humiliation, the awkwardness etc. they get excited, think about the potential fun to be had, they enjoy the challenge and imagine the woman opening up and enjoying talking to them.

It is natural to feel some nerves when talking or approaching a new girl for the first time, but when these nerves become crippling, overpowering feelings then it becomes a problem.

If you don’ t take action against your approach anxiety then in the short term it gets worse – you get more and more inside your head, you “beat yourself up”, and feel bad about yourself. In the long run it leaves you frustrated, depressed, and will really limit your potential to meet women, and enjoy life on a basic level.

If you can overcome your approach anxiety it is like living a whole new life. You head is not weighed down by worry, your self belief grows, and as you effortlessly and naturally approach women and start conversations your love life will greatly improve too.

This is where this album can help. Some people have a natural confidence with women. They approach women naturally, and this is because they have a different way of viewing approaching women, and experience approach anxiety differently. Instead of it crippling them it spurs them on. They get excited by it rather than freeze up – their initial nerves and anxiety lets them know that they are attracted to a woman and this acts as a trigger to take action.
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